When Joy is a Choice

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This morning I drove by a park. I pulled to the curb to savor the pure joy of several adults celebrating life. They were a mix of disabled and able bodied adults enjoying a day of warm weather and blue skies.  The parachute accentuated their joyful whoops and laughter.

Their witness was in contrast to the news on my car radio that morning (the expanding war on terrorism, the 13th anniversary of 9/11 etc.) along with the worries I carry with me.

Tim Hansel in his book ‘You Gotta Keep Dancing’, speaks of his journey with chronic pain.  He writes that joy is different than happiness.  Happiness is circumstancial.  It is dependent upon ‘good things’ happening to us. If like sucks (such as chronic pain) we are unhappy, if things are good we are happy.

Joy he offers is different, it is a choice.  It is based on the deep seated belief ‘that whatever happens, God is with us.’ ‘Joy is a gift’ says Hansel, that comes as we choose to be hopeful.

As I watched these adults ‘play’ in the park.  I found that my own perspective began to  change.  I began to feel and embrace their joy in that park.  I was reminded that while life can be difficul,t that I too can choose to be joyful. 

As a person of faith, I can choose to believe ‘that whatever happens, God is with me.’Who knows, if I truly believe this… you may find me tossing a colored parachute into the air!

4 thoughts on “When Joy is a Choice

  1. Joe B

    We do indeed have a choice. To let the daily happenstances, over which we have no control, control you. Or to embrace the concept of being happy just being alive with more experiences to come.

    I, for one, am happy to be on this side of the dirt

  2. gtlnrby@yahoo.com

    Thank you Kent for all your posts. They inspire and make me think! I am so thankful you have been a part of my family’s life and now mine. Peace be with you, Leanne Gatlin-Ruby (sister of Linda Watson)

    Sent from my iPad

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